5 Top Reasons Why You Can not Find A Man (Which Your Friends Are Too Far To Tell You)

Before I begin, let me preface this by saying that I know not all women need (or want) a man. This Hub is for those who do. As someone who married her childhood sweetheart and is still married, these are the answers I give (or wish I could) to my girlfriends who ask why they’re having such a hard time finding a good man to love and share life with.

The List

It’s no Secret that visualizing your goals helps you obtain them (see what I did there?), but there’s such a thing as too much of a good thing. Chances are, whenever a beautiful, successful, smart, sweet, funny woman who checks of all the boxes except for married and single asks why she can’t find a man to appreciate all these wonderful qualities in her, it’s because of The List. There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you want, especially in a relationship. In fact, you need to have some idea of what you want so you’ll recognize it when you find it and not settle for anything else.

14 Reasons why some women still need a man | A man Story

Why do some women like to have an awesome guy in their life instead of a face?

Women have traveled for long, but still have more travel distances

I had one of the greatest earthquakes in my life when my 68-year-old mother began a serious relationship only 13 months after my father was suddenly dying. For decades she complained to her father - calling him hate, negative and controlling (what he was). I was astonished and astonished that I abandoned my new freedom and entered into a second partnership with someone who had the same destructive qualities. But she did it and stayed there 15 years later.

Although I'm separated from my mother, Samantha, my 29-year-old freezer, is still a woman who can not live without a man. He recently left his 10-year-old husband to another man. When that relationship deteriorated, she immediately asked her friends to host a new one. She started playing at the bars late at night to find a replacement. Being without a man, even for a short time, became completely useless and miserable.

Many of us know women like my mom and Samantha who like to crawl with life than anyone else. They frustrate us and make us angry about their dependence on men at a time when it does not seem necessary. However, looking at the story, it is not surprising that many women still feel compelled to have a man on their side for safety, social status and financial security. Although the slogan "You've Come A Long Way Baby" is true in many ways, we still have a greater distance to go. After all, the women's movement is only 50 years old. Here are the 14 reasons why some women still need a man:

Feminists Were Often Portrayed in the Media as Strident and Humorless

Our History Leads Us to Desire (and Need) a Man

1. Historically, women have been defined by their husbands. During World War II, they were recruited to work in factories as men were forced to vacate those jobs for military service. Before that time, most stayed at home—their identities tied to their roles as wives and mothers. They didn’t have the same opportunities as men to pursue higher education and higher-paying careers so they were financially dependent on their spouses. Most women of my mother’s generation never considered jobs in medicine, engineering, and science.

If you do these 20 things, you are a mother and do not be ashamed

If one of these things says that you are "I am", you are not alone.

It is necessary for a certain woman to become a mother - or say. But even mothers who do not feel ready or inadequate have everything you need to be the mother your children need. Somewhere in the way, you've naturally become a mother.

When you talk to other mothers, you are immediately connected to your experiences that resemble yours. You do not feel any shame about some of the things you do. How to register your kids for the sport they do not like (he builds a character). Or call them to lie (now they must know that you always know when they lie).

What other things are you doing, mother? If you have done some of the things below you, you are definitely a mother and you are proud of it.

1. You help with homework you didn’t understand as a kid

But somehow you’re always the one finding “x” and not them.

10 reasons why your big sister is the best gift your parents gave you - read

Share with your sister if you're grateful for her.

Auggie, the character in the best-selling Novel and the upcoming "Wonder" movie, could not do without her big sister Olivia, for sure. He had to face the challenges that most ten-year-old did not even consider, and his big sister pushed where he was supposed to defend when he became a stone.

I think we can all say. Because, honestly, the big sister is a gift that keeps giving. Here's why your elder sister is the nicest gift your parents gave you - inspired by the best selling novel and upcoming Wonder movie.

1. She tells you the truth (even when it hurts)

Your sister will tell you like it is, even when you don’t want to hear it. For example, if you’re feeling down about the kids at school, she’ll give you the courage and strength to overcome it.

“Are you really going to let a couple of stupid kids keep you from going back to school? … Don’t give them that power over you.” – Wonder

10 ugly things that horrible husbands do with their women

Make sure you are protected from those 10 bad habits that could ruin your marriage.

All right, you're not a terrific husband. But there are very terrible things that you certainly do not want to fit into your marriage. Your wife deserves better than her husband with any of these 10 bad habits.

1. Critical

Please watch yourself and don’t get caught in the trap of criticizing your wife. Choose to see the good in your wife. Compliment her on all the things she is doing right. Next time you find yourself wanting to tell her something you don’t like about her, switch it around and pay her a sincere compliment. She will love it.

8 Things Men ONLY Do With The Woman They Love

Do guess twice if your man love you. Read these signs safely to be sure.

Men and women show that they are very worried. If a man is willing to publicly display his love for a woman, he is not empty. For a man, it is extremely vulnerable to show and express exactly what he feels so great.

There are at least 8 things that a man will only do for a woman he loves sincerely.

1. He listens

If you ever think that men sometimes behave like children, you’re not entirely wrong. Most men only concentrate on things they are passionate about. If they love you, your voice is music to their ears and all you have to do is say something that really matters and they are hooked.

The man who really loves you will not only hear you but will pay attention to your words. You will notice that he follows your advice and respects your thoughts.

If you answer yes to these 16 questions, you are marrying the WRONG man | Story of a Lady

If any of them relates to your relationship, treat them as the main red and FINISH flags.

I was a month after my wedding when I canceled my engagement, so trust me when I say I know what pain is the end of a long-term relationship. But, dear friend, if the relationship is wrong, the end will now be the best choice you can make.

If you answer yes to these questions or your lower stomach says something is wrong, do not marry that man. These red flags will help you to find out if you are in the wrong relationship.

If your husband or Boyfriend does these 15 things, he`s the best man ever

There is no perfect man; but if you have such a thing, have fun.

Many marriages end because of unhappiness. Over time, couples forget to enjoy small things in life. But being grateful every day helps the lovers to be happy.

Understanding and appreciating what your husband is doing for you helps you see what is really important instead of focusing on your failures (which every man has). Your spouse is the most important person in your life, so grace is your wedding and congratulate him on all the things he does for you:

10 things that men want women to stop doing (and instead adopt their natural beauty)

Avoid those 10 things that men find uncomfortable.

Women seem to notice something "bad" with another woman. They can easily detect any pattern of makeup, ugly hairdo or sticky clothes. What about people (Men)? Do those who do not understand anything about women's fashion or also notice that a woman is poorly engaged?

The answer is yes. Most people can say when a woman is trying too hard. Here are 10 things they do not like:

1. Extreme hairstyles

A woman with hair full of volumizing product and variously placed bobby pins walks into the room. You think she will attract the attention of all the men at the party. Will it attract attention? Yes, but not for the reasons you want. Most men prefer long, loose, soft and silky hair, not sticky hairspray and hard gels.

2. Masked faces

Foundation is used to hide imperfections, fine lines and blemishes. However, it should be applied as a thin, even layer, and in a shade that blends right into your skin. Overuse can make it look like you came out with a layer of clay on your face. When applied correctly, no one should be able to tell that you are hiding imperfections on your face. Remember, less is always more.

"You are all I expected and more" - Laura Ikeji celebrates husband Ogbonna Kanu on birthday

Laura Ikeji, on her Instagram, wished her husband Ogbonna Kanu happy birthday.

Shared photo of both on the beach and wrote;

5 challenging tips that all young people need to hear - David Snell

The below article was written by David Snell from familyshare. listen as he advice below.

Hi guys. Little is the liking of this world more than tomatoes, but one of them is formality. I can not handle it. Suits and ties with pompom and sticker .... When things get serious, I'm the guy who's playing around. Keep me in my comfort zone. But now we have to talk about very serious things. The fact that I take the time to write this proves I'm as passionate. Seriously understand the message - even if you hate it.

You may wonder why you have to listen to me, and that's a good question. I think I'm just a random voice on the Internet, but I offer you: I'm on the other side where you are now. I did it in high school. I even did this recently at the university and until recently I married. I went through adolescence and did it in real life. On the way, I've taken some wisdom, which I think will be relevant to you in your life. And if you have no other reason to read, do it because your mother asked for it. see below

5 secrets to make him or her crazy and ask for more

Special relationships are very important in the lives of couples. In addition to raising children, couples usually sex closer and improve understanding between each spouse.

It is important that men and women understand the differences in the feelings and actions that each s**x has when it comes to s**x. This article is particularly about how men manage s**x, and how women can keep them interested even after years of marriage.

Male S**xuality

Men are more visual. he is thrilled with what he sees and can get excited by the simple n**dity image. No wonder the men are targeting the p**rn industry as their primary client, but it's important to realize that p**nography is not normal. In fact, it celebrates those who are guided by their weaknesses. P**nography takes into account the self-centered aspect of s**x - instead of focusing on the emotions of men and women involved.

20 Beautiful Ways to Tell Your Spouse That You Are Pregnant

As the first person to know when you are pregnant, you have a chance (and pressure) to surprise your husband with big news. Try one of these fun ways to tell your husband that your family is growing up:

1. Buy a manual

If this is your first child, he has a lot of learning to do now to become a father. Get the book of preparation instructions to be a father and wrap it to give your husband the least doubt.

2. Take a moment

Plan a family photo and on one of the last photos, instead of saying "cheese," ask the photographer to shout "Tell Emily's Pregnant!" You will now have photos of all reactions.

3. Create a jigsaw puzzle

Customize the puzzle with a message or ultrasound photo. Arrange the puzzle and see how quickly you can figure out what it is.

‘Women have no right to hit men’ – Niniola

Niniola has weighed in on the the rising cases of domestic violence in the country.

According to the singer;

6 Simple ways to keep a friend even when you`re busy

6 Simple ways to keep a friend even when you're busy

Admit it, friends make life a lot more fun. They are vital to our physical health and emotional well-being. If you have a good friend who treats you like family, you will never want to lose them. In as much as "20 friends can't play together for 20 years", there are some worth keeping for a lifetime. There are several reasons why people don't keep in touch with old friends. It may be because they're miles apart, they have busy work schedules, or they have a new family. Either way, good friends are worth the keep.

Here are few tips to help you retain that friendship even when you're busy.

Save Dates: Saving dates of birthdays, anniversaries, events, etc can go a long way in sustaining your friendship. When you remember special dates in a friend's life, it makes the friend feel special knowing you're thinking about him/her.

Don`t Be Afraid To Fail

Don't Be Afraid To Fail

My dad was just transferred to another state and we had to move with him.

It was the second term of a school session and it was already 5 weeks gone into the term. 

My parents registered me in the secondary school very close to where we lived.

Prior to this time, in my previous school, I had always topped the class. It was no longer news to myself, friends and my parents to learn that I took the first position every term.

In my new school however, we were only 20 persons in my class, about half the size of my previous school. I knew I didn't need to pray for the first position. It was a small school afterall. Examination came and soon, results were out. I was shocked to find 12th as my position. It was unexpected. I had prepared or at least I thought I did.

I got home that day and couldn't go in because I was scared that I failed. It was not until my mom met me outside and brought me in. Though, I was criticized and the whole of that day, I couldn't eat. The coming terms, I prepared even harder and came out better than before. This time around, everyone sang my praise and no one even remembered I had failed the previous term. Soon, it died down and everyone went about their businesses or expected more from me.

THINKING RIGHT

Several months ago, I was swimming in frustration. I was worried about my life and everything around me. Nothing was working. Or at least, none that I could see. I had just completed my National Youth Service and was jobless. I had no money to meet my basic needs. To make matters worse, my boyfriend had just discontinued the relationship with me.

Pain, anger, dejection, frustration, confusion! Name it. I didn't know where my life was headed and I began to fill my mind with vain thoughts. I only thought of how worthless my life was. I felt unloved and even hated my life. The more I thought negative about myself, the more negative my life became.  I lost faith and hope in myself. I got angry at even little things that normally shouldn't make me angry. I shut everyone out of my life and smiled less.

NIGERIAN WORKERS: CAN YOU RELATE?

If you work in Nigeria, you’d certainly relate to these hilarious experiences. Maybe one, some or maybe even all!

Here’s a list of situations in pictures some Nigerian workers face and can easily relate to. Have a peek!

HOW TO SAY NO IN A POLITE AND FRIENDLY WAY WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY

HOW TO SAY NO IN A POLITE AND FRIENDLY WAY WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY

Sometimes, saying NO is the only best option. If you're like me, you will most definitely find it very difficult to say no in any situation you find yourself in. I often found it very difficult to say NO to a request or favour asked of me, this almost cost me a relationship and I learnt the hard way.

Jim Iyke talks about his style understanding-See what he said

One of Nollywood’s most stylish actor, Jim Iyke has just defined what he understands by the word ‘STYLE’ in this beautifully worded and intelligently written piece.

Read his understanding below..